Resolve to Resolve: A Broken Relationship
This time of year, we habitually reflect and put into action desires for what we want to do with our time left (or just the year ahead of us). Resolve is a powerful word. One definition is to reduce something into its simpler parts. When a conflict between you and …
How to Have an Uncomfortable Conversation
Arrive prepared.You could reflect on your current understanding of their hurt. And have a well-summarized understanding of your own hurt. Also, commit in your head and heart to not shut down or walk away, to see it through. To start:For example, “Thank you for showing up. It means a lot …
How to Have a Difficult, Yet Productive Convo Using Radio Technique
The Radio When to use: to discuss a hot topic OR to help resolve discordance. Goal: a successful conversation. To start: “Can we turn on The Radio?”“Let’s turn on The Radio.” Rules of engagement: Helpful hint…More often than not, staying in the present time can be helpful. How to use a mediator: The …